Monday, September 10, 2007

love!!!!!

This thing is really hyped up in films and to me it is no more than a trash.In my college life i came across many lovers who speak on phone for hours at the risking their future.Is it really worth it??To me it is no more than attraction.But these people do not accept my point ..They tell me that it is love.Then i ask why don't they talk for hours together to their dads whom they love.They don't have answers for this.

I ll tell you something ,people in america date many people only to find their perfect match and here in india it is mostly arranged ones.But it is known that divorces are quite high in america and it is hardly seen in india.What do u think is the reason?Simple u need to have the heart to love.It is your attitude that counts.If you have the right attitude u ll look at the positive things in your partner and mould yourself accordingly.


It really sounds funny when i hear people saying there is someone who is made for them.Even if people are prepared to sacrifice their lives for love in the initial stages of their marriage , after a couple of years,their relation is no better than arranged marriage couple's. So all that is needed is some sort of attitude.If u have the right attitude i am sure your relation with your partner would be the best no matter whether it is a love marriage or not.So love is not actually required in college life and all these are the reasons why arranged marriages in india are successful.