love!!!!!

This thing is really hyped up in films and to me it is no more than a trash.In my college life i came across many lovers who speak on phone for hours at the risking their future.Is it really worth it??To me it is no more than attraction.But these people do not accept my point ..They tell me that it is love.Then i ask why don't they talk for hours together to their dads whom they love.They don't have answers for this.

I ll tell you something ,people in america date many people only to find their perfect match and here in india it is mostly arranged ones.But it is known that divorces are quite high in america and it is hardly seen in india.What do u think is the reason?Simple u need to have the heart to love.It is your attitude that counts.If you have the right attitude u ll look at the positive things in your partner and mould yourself accordingly.


It really sounds funny when i hear people saying there is someone who is made for them.Even if people are prepared to sacrifice their lives for love in the initial stages of their marriage , after a couple of years,their relation is no better than arranged marriage couple's. So all that is needed is some sort of attitude.If u have the right attitude i am sure your relation with your partner would be the best no matter whether it is a love marriage or not.So love is not actually required in college life and all these are the reasons why arranged marriages in india are successful.

Lead a cool life man.

Most of us get anxious when we face a competitive exam like gre,cat etc.,Such anxiety is mainly due to living a life divested of options which leads to fear of failure. One should realize that winning and loosing are part of life. Building up unnecessary stress is uncalled for when you know that it only helps ruining your health and messes up your exam.

Options are important in life so that we need not get bogged down on a particular goal.For eg.,In my case after i graduate from the engg college,I have 2 options which are to go for MS or to go for a job. I need to keep the 2 options open.Even if i am rejected a visa i should be prepared to go for a job and viceversa . I dont mean to say that you shouldnt have a strong goal to do something.Always aim high and give your hundred percent . Still if you dont succeed u always have the second option.


Games also teach us that failure and success are two sides of the same coin.It is an ordinary thing for the players to experience setbacks.The ordeal (as it appeared )that Ganguly went through is no better example.But Ganguly has risen up to the challenge and came out with flying colours.So, in real life even if they fail they dont get dejected but accept that as a natural occurrence in everyones life.


Even after a lot of drudgery we may at times end up as failures and sometimes a perfunctory work may fetch you success.Things always do not happen the way we expect them to .This is what life is all about.Always have confidence in yourself and never listen to anybody who says "you cant".

Introduction

well well this is the place where i would be raving and critiquing the systems :-)...Sounding kindaa official ???But i think everyone has got an obligation towards his society and i find blogging would be a great place to express your ideas and also to jot down one's personal experiences. So here i am blogging..